At Christian Care Communities, gratitude is not just a feeling, it is visible in every kind act and gentle touch our volunteers. From the very beginning of our story to the life-giving work happening today at our Best Friends Center, volunteers have always been at the center of who we are. They do not just support our mission, they bring it to life, helping us enhance the journey of life for older adults in meaningful, personal ways.
It all started in 1884 with a single, generous act. Pauline Crawford’s gift laid the groundwork for a legacy of care and compassion that continues to guide us. Today, our volunteers carry that same spirit forward, bringing connection, joy, and a sense of belonging that transform our spaces into true communities.
Each year, we have the privilege of recognizing someone who reflects that same spirit in an extraordinary way. On March 28, we were honored to present the Pauline Crawford Award to Brenda Curtz. Brenda’s years of service and her unwavering commitment to our participants have had a lasting impact. She shows us what it looks like to not just give, but to show up, again and again, with kindness and care. A retired physician, Brenda has dedicated three decades of volunteer service to Best Friends.
Her impact extends beyond her own time, this has truly become a family affair, with her daughter, grandchildren, and husband all supporting the center alongside her. Known for her leadership in the kitchen, affectionately called “Brenda’s Kitchen” she runs a tight ship, keeping things organized, welcoming, and running smoothly. But what sets Brenda apart is not just what she does, it is how she does it.
She is intentional with each participant, taking the time to learn their life stories, understand their limitations, and meet them with dignity and respect. She is a no-nonsense presence, grounded in compassion, and deeply committed to ensuring every person feels valued as they age. We are truly blessed by her dedication.
When Brenda accepted the award, her response reflected the humility and heart that define her service. “I appreciate this award, but I really want to give it to the rest of you all for doing what you do here today,” she shared with staff. In that moment, she reminded us that while we may recognize one individual, the spirit of service is something shared across this entire community.
The Best Friends approach was built on a simple but powerful idea: people living with dementia need connection, dignity, and someone who truly knows them. That is where our volunteers come in. Through consistency, compassion, and relationship, they create an environment where participants feel seen, valued, and known. Virginia Bell’s legacy lives on through all these lives that are impacted daily. It is in the shared coffee, the familiar songs, the gentle moments of connection, the laughter, and the quiet moments of understanding, this is where the blessings happen.
To every volunteer who gives their time at the Best Friends Center: you are the reason this program feels like home. You carry forward a legacy of love that started over a century ago and continues to grow through you.
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“Thank you for being part of this story. Thank you for showing up. And thank you for making Christian Care Communities a place where dignity, purpose, and love are lived out every single day.” – Mary Lynn Spalding, President/CEO
